"cut out all negative people in your life, do it now"
you know that’s not an option for everyone, that people are more complicated and come attached with strings
Or my favorite, “yell at your friends whenever they say something sexist/ableist/etc.!” Uhhh not everyone has the, dare I say it, privilege to be able to annihilate their entire support structure and start fresh.
Fucking finally. The world’s not just black and white. No one person in your life can ever be a 100% positive influence. Sometimes you gotta take the bad with the good.